The Business of Happiness

Most of the people i talk to that are not in a good place blame it on their spouse or job. I am a huge self proclaimed busy body that talk and gossip with everyone i meet.spanish_accident

So i often ask questions about what’s going on in someone’s life or what do they need to do to be happy? I like to keep a mental record and blog about it later. It is usually something service in the beginning but often turns into a need for money. Then i hear about their ideas of what they are going to do. Like they have hired a Riverside personal injury attorney. Some of these people have discovered they have a law suit they can file and make the insurance company settle out of court and get money.

This Peaked my interest even more. I thought it was illegal, but the people tell me how the Personal injury attorney Riverside Ca talked to them and found a wrong that has been committed against them and they had a right to monetary payments for pain and suffering. They  are due money even if they have just been in a small accident just for the inconvenience. And if it is worse they call Riverside car accident attorney to get a free talk before they find out if they have a case.

I know this sounds like a hassle and i know you may not have the time or money for a attorney. I felt the same way, and for as cheesy as it sounded i contacted a Riverside car accident lawyers and they explained that we pay insurance to cover this stuff. And the attorney would handle everything else and i just need to get better and get paid.


divorce_attorneyNow i know i have my retirement all figured out and i will be happy for the rest of my life. i had my foot run over by my city buss. They have awesome insurance and in a couple years i will  be set for life. I can not walk anymore and they will need to get me all the best technology to make me mobile and a large sum of money to pay for long term pain and suffering.

I Once Was Not As Happy As Now

When i was very young i had a much harder time with my happiness. i was a wandering soul who could not seem to make heads or tails of this crazy messed up world. I had a hard time fitting in and when i was finally in the in crowd i found that they were not as happy as i thought they would be. I was very disappointed with their lack of happy feelings. it was as if they had not reason to proclaim their wonderful lives and eoy the world around them enough to be just plain happy. I traveled in this crowd for awhile i guess a couple years or more. i thought i had found the perfect friends and was looking forward to the perfect happy life for ever. happy

After a while i started to realize the fake happiness around me. i noticed the kids would turn on a happy outer appearance and pretend to be happy. My friend had this down to a science and they could fool anyone even their phycologists who just proclaimed they were making progress and would prescribe some pills to try and make them happier.

This experience really helped me later on in life as i could spot a faker a mile away. i could even fake it myself and would do so often. i even got married and tried to start a family because i thought it was part of the path to happiness. i stayed in a bad marriage for quiet a while not realizing that the happiness had to come from within. I had to make some tough decisions and put down my foot to find my own personal happiness. This lead to a revelation and it made me a much stronger person. I left the bad situations and started my own path. And i have never regretted it. i am the happiest person i know today and i continually get happier with every passing year. i have taught my children to be happy and i instilled the told they will need to know what makes them happy and how to not stay in a bad unhappy place. Good luck to all and i hope you’re happy.

Sincer regards the Happy Mom